love alphabet

try to look for someone who gives youthese: Ü

(A) accepts you as you are
(B) believes in "You"
(C) calls you just to say "HI"
(D) doesn't give up on you
(E) envisions the whole of you
(F) forgives your mistakes
(G) gives unconditionally
(H) helps you
(I) invites you over
(J) just "Be" with you
(K) keeps you close at heart
(L) loves you for who you are
(M) makes a difference in your life
(N) never Judges
(O) offers support
(P) picks you up
(Q) quiets your fears
(R) raises your spirits
(S) says nice things about you
(T) tells you the truth when you needto hear it
(U) understands you
(V) values you
(W) walks beside you
(X) explain things you don't understand
(Y) yells when you won't listen and
(Z) zaps you back to reality

equations

R+R+R-R=R

(rules and regulations
minus
relationships
equals
resentment and rebellion)

7 habits

Habit one: Be proactive.
Take responsibility for your life.
Habit two: Begin with the End in Mind.
Define your mission and goals in life.
Habit three: Put first Things First.
Prioritize, and do the most important things first.
Habit four: Think Win-Win!
Have an every one-can-win-attitude.
Habit five: Seek first to Understand, then to be Understood.
Listen to people sincerely.
Habbit six: Synergize.
Work together to achieve more!
Habit seven: Sharpen the Saw.
Renew yourself regularly.

I' d say

worry: The most destructive habit
giving: The greatest Joy
loss of self respect: The greatest loss
helping others: The most satisfying work
selfishness: The ugliest personality trait
dedicated leaders: The most endangered species
our youth: Our greatest natural resource
encouragement:The greatest "shot in the arm
fear: The greatest problem to overcome
peace of mind: The most effective sleeping pills
excuses: The most crippling failure disease!
LOVE: The most powerful force in life
A GOSSIPER: The most dangerous pariah
the brain: The world's most incredible computer
hope: The worst thing to be without
the TONGUE: The deadliest weapon
"i can": The two most power-filled words
faith: The greatest asset
self pity: The most worthless emotion
smile: The most beautiful attire
integrity: The most prized possession
PRAYER: The most powerful channel of communication
enthusiasm: The most contagious spirit

say a little prayer

Concentrate on the image for 30 seconds.
Close your eyes.
Pray the AMEN prayer.

Almighty Father, I humbly pray as I beg for your love and mercy. Lord forgive us our sins as I acknowledge that I am nothing without you because by your holy cross, redeemed the world.

Mama Mary, intercede for us as I lift up to your Son.Jesus my family, my love ones, my friends, my enemies,mydetractors. I lift up the souls of my love ones as I ask them to pray for us..I lift up all the souls in the pulgatory. I lift up allt he people I promised to pray for, especially those who are sick. I lift up my personal intentions as I believe in faith,he only has to say the word and my wishes shall be granted.

Empower me with the gifts of the holy spirit.guide me in all my thoughts,words and actions.


Visit Tierra de Maria,tagaytay City .My honey and I come to visit here at least once a moth.

my prayer

lead me lord

Lead me Lord
Lead me by the hand
And make me face the rising sun
Comfort me through all the pain
That life may bring
There’s no other hope
That I can lean upon
Lead me Lord
Lead me all my life

Walk by me
Walk by me across
The lonely road that I may face
Take my arms and let your hand
Show me the way
Show the way to live inside your heart
All my days, all my life

[refrain]
You are my light
You’re the lamb upon my feet
All the time my Lord
I need You there
You are my light I (just) cannot live alone
Let me stay by Your guiding love
All through my life
Lead me Lord

Lead me Lord
Even though at times
I’d rather go alone my way
Help me take the right direction
Take Your road
Lead me Lord
And never leave my side
All my days, All my life

[refrain 2]
You are my light
You’re the lamb upon my feet
All the time my Lord
I need You there
You are my light I (just) cannot live alone
Let me stay by Your guiding love
All through my life
All through my days
Lead me, O Lord
Lead me Lord

two years together

for our 2nd year anniversary, i don't have anything else to say but thank all those who have shown me love especially, you, my honey!
THANK YOU.
treehaus: where we met
pansit: what i always craved all the time in tuguegarao and because of this, we met
ric: the person who introduced us
dave: thanks for not going along with ric, so instead mon went along
may 13, 2003: first birthday that we're together
june 2003: our relationship did not work but we became good friends
january 1, 2004: after 6 months that we did not talk, this day you texted me and said this year was going to be okay for us
march 2004: our time together did not fare well but we became best friends.
sara smile: the song my honey continously played at the house
october 2, 2004: i said yes!
october 27, 2005: wed anniv
sun 24/7: everyday on the phone without sleep
december 2004: you came to visit me in manila because you missed me.
l acoste shoes: first x'mas gift you gave me that i always use at the clinic
las pinas: where we got to know each other more and more
laundry: we wash our clothes together and we even hang them together
kitchen: where we invent different dishes; sometimes delicious, sometimes we can't even eat it lotsa of pizza: what we always eat while watching
pringles/ruffles: something we never forget to buy when we go grocery shopping
dampa: this is where we found out how much we can eat. seafood!
puerto gallera: where we got burnt from enjoying the sun and water
callaocave: i won't forget the time when we went swimming here
baguio: where it was very cold and where holding each other was the best
la union: where we bought the best boneless milkfish
starbucks: caramel frap and strawberry frap
party: where we spent time wit our friends
flowers: daisy / rose
picture: because i am so into photography, my honey now knows how to project to the camera surprises: great feeling!
tears: our tears due to happiness and sadness
tampuhan: always able to talk it through and makes our relationship stronger
hugs and kisses: so cute cause my honey loves to do this

thank you for being so sweet to me. you always tell me how much you love me, how much you miss me and how much i make you happy. i admire how much you trust me and our love for each other. i really love you very much, too honey. you complete my life. thank you.
Happy 2nd year anniversary to us honeypiepie!
i love you sooooo much!!!
mmmmuuaaaaaHUGS!

"lord thank you for giving me someone like mon."

ading jayson

iddi oct 21.aldaw nga inur uray ko para iti maykaddwa nga agbirthday kadagidiay TALLO nga mahal ko unay nga kaduak ittoy balay.isuna ket nasingpet nga anak nga naragsak iti magulang na iti kinapintas na iti pinagbasa na.nangangatu nga grades nga ipakpakita na.isuna ket mapagmahal la unay iti kakabsaT NA.nu adday kailangan da ket matulungan na basta kaya na. isuna ket naragsak nga kadkadua iti kakasinsin na ken gagayyem na. isuna ket iti kabsat ko nga bunso.ni JAYSON.

iddi 0ct 22 nasakit iti nakem ko nu haan ko man lang maikkan isuna iti uray bassit mman lang nga salo salo idiay balay. isu nga iti inubrak nagluto nak itibassit nga handa na.ken haan nga maawan iti cake nga kaykayat na.tiramisu.naragsak nga rabii.nabnabsog iti bassit nga nilutok ken nabarbatek la unay iti kinaadu ti arak.hahaha

salamat rhea.salamat mon.ken salamat manang.ken agitti umay nga nagpasaya iti birthday ni adding ko jayson.

happy birthday manen ADING JAYSON!

love lots,
ate sarah

umuna

inyan.agsasaruno iti agbirthday .hehe nagadun iti agitreat kanya kon.aysus.tataba nga lalo nu kastoy laeng.hahaha ssssh! seryoson.

tatta october tallo kadagidiay importante nga tao iti agbirthday.tallo nga kakaduak ditoy balay sta mesa.tallo nga lalaki.tallo nga nakakulkulit.tallo nga nagpigsa nga mangan.tallo nga puro porma ub-ubraen da.tallo nga adda amin gf na. tallo nga nagsasadut ta siak iti tagaluto da nu awan ni manang.tallo nga sweet da unay kanyak nga manang da. tallo nga napuspos unay iti pagadal da.tallo nga nalaing agay ayam iti basketball.at syempre, NAGAGWAPO DA.apu la unayen aya.haha

Dsc00008 ni ading ko nga eric.isu na iti maysa. umuna nga agbirthday kadakanyada nga tallo.attoy nga kasinsin ko iti kasingpetan kanya da nga tallo. nalpasen iti birthday na.idi oct. 4 pay.ngem idi rabii mi nga icinelebrate ta inuydak nga nagawid ditoy balay mi sta mesa.idiay dampa kame nga napan it paranaque..idiay ket nagdinner kame.kadua mi iti gf na nga ni loan, tas da jayson,rean,paul,ali,mon,pola,monty ken ric.dampa.seafoods!aysus.calamares.sinigang sa miso.buttered tuna belly.baked tahong. buttered chili prawns.watermeloN! ta nabnabsug kame amin.12:30 am san idi malpas kame nga manganen.papanan mi pay? eastwood kano?hala!madinak nga mabalin nen mapan ngamin ta nasapa iti reviewk.natuloy da erik ngem sika da mon ric monty ken pola nagawidden.nagragsak nga rabii.nagragsak nga birthday ni ading ko eric..Dsc00236

ading.ipagpatuloy mo iti napintas nga pinangrugim iti pagsirek mo iti colegio.iti kinasingpet mo.attoy lang iti wish ko kingka, sapay kuma ta iyadayu ka ni apu dios iti sakit ken disgrasya.

tandaam datoy.haan ka nga malas.swerte ka,ok?ni mangng mo sarah adda lage ditoy nu kailangam wen?

Happy birthday ading ERIC!

love you.muah!

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urayen yo ni sinu iti maykadua nga agbday..hehe

since 1987

it's almost here. it's almost here. my best friend, karen...her birthday is almost here. wohoo. seems like yesterday...
i met karen when we started nursery school. we were classmates. i remember our classroom back then to be very small but it had a lot of toys. lol. our teacher was ma'am natividad. back then, we went to school in pattao. in nursery school, we were both 2nd honor until we graduated kindergarten. we were both salutatorian. isn't that cute? we were tied. ha ha ha. in grade one, our teacher was mrs. peralta. there, she was 1st honor and i was only 3rd. it just proves that she's smarter than me. hahaha. karen, do you remember our playground at school? it was very dusty, but so much fun. what about all the big acacia trees at the school and the pansit and spaghetti in platic bags they sold at the canteen? it was so much fun even though life was just like that.

1990. she had to leave to go to the US because her parents were there. i understood because her family had to come first, but i do not think she wanted to leave the Philippines. she grew up with her aunt and uncle in pattao, who became her second parents. she didn't want to leave them and leave her friends. she was very sad when she left. she actually pleaded with her parents in the US if she could stay in the Philippines until she graduated from 6th grade, but they did not allow it. she was very sad and afraid to move to the states. she did not know anyone over there. however, she had to go and she had to get used to her new environment. new family faces, new language, new environment, new climate, new everything. when she left, i was very sad. but she did everything so that the ones she left in the PI were not unhappy. i remember since grade 2, we were already writing each other letters. when i was still in buguey, i would always go to our post office because she always had a letter for me. she was very sweet. karen, did you know that the first dollar i held and was mine was the ones you send me that very first christmas you were there. i was very happy when i received it. lol. when i moved for high school, the writing continued and we had a lot of conversations through letters.1999. she came to visit us in the PI. it was very nice seeing her. we were both growing up. she even came to stay overnight at our place in manila. it was so much fun. i miss it!karen is my true friend. she never forgot to send me xmas cards and bday cards everytime i celebrated my birthday. haha. she would call when she learned my mobile number. now, we chat online when we find the chance. she's inlove now, actually for a long time now. i just don't know when she's going to tie the knot. when are you getting married? my best friend and i are both crazy! hahaha. her birthday is on september 25th which will be her 24th birthday. wohoo!bessy, on your birthday, my only wish from lord is GOOD health for this friend of mine.

when will you be coming home here? 7 years already!come home already karen!i miss you so much.or should i just go there to see you just like you said?it's possible! :-)

best friends since 1987!

happy birthday BESSY!

heya bro!

sept 13. whose birthday was it?
i remember. there was one kid then. i grew up him. we were playmates. he was very nice to his parents. he had a lot of friends but i remember his best friend was carlo. very smart. he was the teachers' favorite in pattao. he was my partner in dance contests at schools. when he was young, he was already cute. really. it's true. we went to school together in high school at st paul. at a young age, he was already helping his dad at work. he likes to fix broken electric fans, cd players, etc. he would go with his dad on his project ventures with bridges. he would watch how these were built. he would receive academic awards. he is proficient in math. blue card awardee. etc. when he graduated from high school, i was secretly crying in my room. my mom was the same. because he had chicken pox and he had very high fever that he wasn't able to march across the stage to accept his diploma. it's so sad because it was a big accomplishment in his life. when he got to college, we even shared the same house in manila. he was so good. he wouldn't go out when his friends would invite him. i remember he would sermon us because we would always go out and we wouldn't come home till really late.

who is this i'm talking about?
it's the brother i love so much.
Vito Jr.
Dong is what we call him. to us siblings, he would be called daddy dong because of his sermons. he is a very kind uncle "kuyang dong" to my baby frances. one really smart engineer. how many projects do you have now, bro? hehehe...bro, you're 23 now. he he he he.

you're old now too. but that's okay. i know that your love for us never changes. you always put us before yourself. thank you my dear brother. even though i couldn't come home on this special day of yours, i am always praying to jesus that you are always happy on your birthday.

my wish for your birthday is that i hope you are always happy with everything you do. hope lord will never leave you alone. hope lord will keep you away from sickness and accidents. i wish you all the wonderful things in life. don't forget to thank god for everything.

happy birthday!

ate loves you so MUCH bro! muah!

fifth birthday

time is fast...only 22 more days until my baby girl's 5th birthday. it doesn't seem so long agowhen i was in the labor room screaming of pain.and when i woke up i had stitches on my stomach (CS). they admitted me to the labor room at midnight and for trying to have a normal delivery, by 4pm i
had to get CS.at delgado hospital in kamuning.

Baptism and the God parents.

Her first birthday was at bf homes caloocan.It was a lot of fun.2nd-4th birthday in tuguegarao. i wasn't able to attend 3 of her birthdays because i had final exams.my mom didn't let me go home.NOW, it's her 5TH BIRTHDAY! so fast! but now that her mom has graduated, she is sure that she will take care of her baby Frances Vita's 5th birthday! yipeee!

to my dearest frances vita,
on your 5th birthday anak,i want you to know that on every birthday mommy really wants to come home to be with you.to be with you to celebrate this happy and important day.sept 30.i want to hug you and say thanks to God for bringing an angel into my life. i kiss you and hug you like i never want to be away from you again.i want to tell you that I love you like i always tell you.because if you only knew how much i love you baby,you are my life.You are the one who gives me strenght in everything i do.


You are the reason why mommy is living.


my wish for your 5th birthday is wahat i always tell you. iwant you to grow up to be akind child to your playmates, to papa and mama and to all the people that love you.

and i would like to thank my mom and dad for always supporting me and my baby.if it weren't for them,we wouldn't have what we have today.

to all my siblings and cousins who are there always when i need somethingand who love my baby morethan just a niece.

to mon, for loving us so much. and for accepting us without a lot of questions.one very kind and nice husbond and loving dad to ces.

and to God, thank you for the GIFT.

thank you to eveyone!

a lot of drama,eh!

muah!

you are the one

nya.yep, katatapos ko lang nagwatch ng movie.wehehehe kinilig nanaman ang lola mo.kase..kasi..kasi si Sam! lol ewan ko..basta nakakatuwa yung movie.basta nakakakilig.basta masaya.nakakatawa.sorry po,tao lang.lol katulad ng close to you nyang movie,patok ulit ito!hahahaha

photographer's night

miss it so much.
how did i get the chance to be with these very beautiful and very handsome photographers? they are beautiful inside and out. okay, kuya orly, my mom's niece's husband brought me along to the opening of their school workshop at west ave because he found out i have a passion for photography. not really right? kidding aside, when we arrived at west ave kuya orly introduced me to all the photographers. i think i was the only one who was not a photographer! i'm glad they are all kind. they talked and talked to me. drinks all around. wine for everyone. bottoms up! lots of talking and lots of laughing. but one thing i remember is that i got super drunk! as in! sure i had 3-5 bottles of wine! i don't know about Ms. Leah! ha ha ha. kuya orly told me that ms. agnes (one of the photographer's dentist) took me home. ha ha ha. so embarrasing. but all i can say is that i had such a great time with the photographers. they are true friends. i miss them so much..

night swimming

woah! when was the last time we went swimming? was it on my birthday? mmmh..yes! that's been such a long time. where was it? laguna? that's right! it was storming then. lol.

newei, last sat night we went swimming again in laguna. it was my ate's friend, Roberto's birthday. he is my friend, angelica's husband. they were our friends in buguey. btw, it was 9pm when we got to laguna. we ate right away. wow! grilled tilapia and catfish, pork barbeque, pansit, papaitan. sarap! plus dessert, of course you can't go without the birthday cake for the birthday boy. lol we were so full. drinking time! emperador for us. toast for me. emperador drink right away and then coke for the chaser. everyone drank. then swimming time. i said that i wasn't going to swim at the moment.i was at the edge of the pool and my brother pushed me into 6ft of water. hello?!! i'm only 5'1'' and i do not know how to swim! ha ha ha. it was a while until i got hold of the edge of the pool. argh! did i drown? not really.

it was a fun birthday for kuya bittong. drinking. singing.