Monday, December 11

starbucks



COFFEE
is real good when you drink it.
It gives you time to think.
It's a lot more than just a drink

it's something happening.
Not as in hip, but like an EVENT.

a place to be,
but not like a location,
but like somewhere
WITHIN yourself.
It gives you TIME,

but not actual HOURS
or minutes,
but a chance TO BE,

like be yourself,
and have a second CUP!


-gertrude stein

Thursday, December 7

no.1



Best friends hang tough. They don't come with 'FRAGILE' stickers and are not easily scared off, or ticked off. Best friends help you out whenever they can, make time for you even when they don't have any, and trust your friendship enough to say 'NO'. Best friends arecross -your-heart-and-hope-to-die, good-times-and-bad-times, borrow - anything, tell -you -everything, trust-you-with-their-deepest-darkest-secrets, always-and-forever friends.

Friday, December 1

think..think..think..



you're not ready to have SEX if...

-you think sex equals love.
-you feel pressured.
-you're afraid to say no.
-it's just easier to give in.
-you think evereyone else doing it. (there not!)
-your instincts tell you not to.
-you don't know the facts about pregnancy.
-you don't understand how birth control works.
-you don't think a woman can get pregnant the first time.
-it goes against your moral beliefs.
-it goes against your religious beliefs.
-you'll regret it in the morning.
- you fell embarrassed or ashamed.
- you're doing it to prove something.
- you cant support a child.
-you cant support yourself.
-you cant support yourself.
-your idea of commitment is a 3-day video rental.
-you believe sex before marriage is wrong.
-you dont know how to protect yourself from HIV- the virus that causes AIDS.
- you don't know the signs and symptoms of sexually transmitted infections (STIs,also called STD's)
-you think it will make your partner love you.
- you think it will keep you together.
-you hope it will change your life.
-you don't want it to change your life.
-you're not ready for the relationship to change.
-you're drunk.
-you wish you were drunk.
-your partner is drunk.
-you expect it to be perfect.
-you'll just die if it's not perfect.
-you can't love together about awkward elbows and clumsy clothes.
-you're not ready to take off your clothes.
-you think HIV and AADS only happen to other people.
-you think you can tell who has HIV by looking at them.
-you don't think teens get HIV.(they do.)
-you don't know that abstinence is the only 100% protection against sexually transmitted infections and pregnancy.
-you haven't talked about tomorrow.
-you'd be horrified if your parents found out.
-you're too scared to think clearly.
-you think it will make you more popular.
-you think you "owe it" to your partner.
-you think it's not OK to be a virgin.
-your only thinking about yourself.
-you're only thinking about yourself.
-YOU REALLY WISH THE WHOLE THING HAD NEVER COME UP...

It's OK to WAIT. lol

Friday, November 24

love alphabet



try to look for someone who gives youthese: Ü

(A) accepts you as you are
(B) believes in "You"
(C) calls you just to say "HI"
(D) doesn't give up on you
(E) envisions the whole of you
(F) forgives your mistakes
(G) gives unconditionally
(H) helps you
(I) invites you over
(J) just "Be" with you
(K) keeps you close at heart
(L) loves you for who you are
(M) makes a difference in your life
(N) never Judges
(O) offers support
(P) picks you up
(Q) quiets your fears
(R) raises your spirits
(S) says nice things about you
(T) tells you the truth when you needto hear it
(U) understands you
(V) values you
(W) walks beside you
(X) explain things you don't understand
(Y) yells when you won't listen and
(Z) zaps you back to reality

Thursday, November 23

equations



R+R+R-R=R

(rules and regulations
minus
relationships
equals
resentment and rebellion)

Tuesday, November 21

7 habits



Habit one: Be proactive.
Take responsibility for your life.
Habit two: Begin with the End in Mind.
Define your mission and goals in life.
Habit three: Put first Things First.
Prioritize, and do the most important things first.
Habit four: Think Win-Win!
Have an every one-can-win-attitude.
Habit five: Seek first to Understand, then to be Understood.
Listen to people sincerely.
Habbit six: Synergize.
Work together to achieve more!
Habit seven: Sharpen the Saw.
Renew yourself regularly.

Thursday, November 16

I' d say



worry: The most destructive habit
giving: The greatest Joy
loss of self respect: The greatest loss
helping others: The most satisfying work
selfishness: The ugliest personality trait
dedicated leaders: The most endangered species
our youth: Our greatest natural resource
encouragement:The greatest "shot in the arm
fear: The greatest problem to overcome
peace of mind: The most effective sleeping pills
excuses: The most crippling failure disease!
LOVE: The most powerful force in life
A GOSSIPER: The most dangerous pariah
the brain: The world's most incredible computer
hope: The worst thing to be without
the TONGUE: The deadliest weapon
"i can": The two most power-filled words
faith: The greatest asset
self pity: The most worthless emotion
smile: The most beautiful attire
integrity: The most prized possession
PRAYER: The most powerful channel of communication
enthusiasm: The most contagious spirit


Wednesday, November 15

say a little prayer

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Concentrate on the image for 30 seconds.
Close your eyes.
Pray the AMEN prayer.

Almighty Father, I humbly pray as I beg for your love and mercy. Lord forgive us our sins as I acknowledge that I am nothing without you because by your holy cross, redeemed the world.

Mama Mary, intercede for us as I lift up to your Son.Jesus my family, my love ones, my friends, my enemies,mydetractors. I lift up the souls of my love ones as I ask them to pray for us..I lift up all the souls in the pulgatory. I lift up allt he people I promised to pray for, especially those who are sick. I lift up my personal intentions as I believe in faith,he only has to say the word and my wishes shall be granted.

Empower me with the gifts of the holy spirit.guide me in all my thoughts,words and actions.


Visit Tierra de Maria,tagaytay City .My honey and I come to visit here at least once a moth.

Saturday, November 4

my prayer



lead me lord

Lead me Lord
Lead me by the hand
And make me face the rising sun
Comfort me through all the pain
That life may bring
There’s no other hope
That I can lean upon
Lead me Lord
Lead me all my life

Walk by me
Walk by me across
The lonely road that I may face
Take my arms and let your hand
Show me the way
Show the way to live inside your heart
All my days, all my life

[refrain]
You are my light
You’re the lamb upon my feet
All the time my Lord
I need You there
You are my light I (just) cannot live alone
Let me stay by Your guiding love
All through my life
Lead me Lord

Lead me Lord
Even though at times
I’d rather go alone my way
Help me take the right direction
Take Your road
Lead me Lord
And never leave my side
All my days, All my life

[refrain 2]
You are my light
You’re the lamb upon my feet
All the time my Lord
I need You there
You are my light I (just) cannot live alone
Let me stay by Your guiding love
All through my life
All through my days
Lead me, O Lord
Lead me Lord

Friday, October 27

two years together



for our 2nd year anniversary, i don't have anything else to say but thank all those who have shown me love especially, you, my honey!
THANK YOU.
treehaus: where we met
pansit: what i always craved all the time in tuguegarao and because of this, we met
ric: the person who introduced us

dave: thanks for not going along with ric, so instead mon went along
may 13, 2003: first birthday that we're together
june 2003: our relationship did not work but we became good friends
january 1, 2004: after 6 months that we did not talk, this day you texted me and said this year was going to be okay for us
march 2004: our time together did not fare well but we became best friends.
sara smile: the song my honey continously played at the house
october 2, 2004: i said yes!
october 27, 2005: wed anniv
sun 24/7: everyday on the phone without sleep
december 2004: you came to visit me in manila because you missed me.

l acoste shoes: first x'mas gift you gave me that i always use at the clinic
las pinas: where we got to know each other more and more
laundry: we wash our clothes together and we even hang them together
kitchen: where we invent different dishes; sometimes delicious, sometimes we can't even eat it lotsa of pizza: what we always eat while watching
pringles/ruffles: something we never forget to buy when we go grocery shopping
dampa: this is where we found out how much we can eat. seafood!
puerto gallera: where we got burnt from enjoying the sun and water
callaocave: i won't forget the time when we went swimming here
baguio: where it was very cold and where holding each other was the best
la union: where we bought the best boneless milkfish
starbucks: caramel frap and strawberry frap
party: where we spent time wit our friends
flowers: daisy / rose
picture: because i am so into photography, my honey now knows how to project to the camera surprises: great feeling!
tears: our tears due to happiness and sadness
tampuhan: always able to talk it through and makes our relationship stronger
hugs and kisses: so cute cause my honey loves to do this

thank you for being so sweet to me. you always tell me how much you love me, how much you miss me and how much i make you happy. i admire how much you trust me and our love for each other. i really love you very much, too honey. you complete my life. thank you.
Happy 2nd year anniversary to us honeypiepie!
i love you sooooo much!!!
mmmmuuaaaaaHUGS!

"lord thank you for giving me someone like mon."

Monday, October 23

ading jayson




iddi oct 21.aldaw nga inur uray ko para iti maykaddwa nga agbirthday kadagidiay TALLO nga mahal ko unay nga kaduak ittoy balay.isuna ket nasingpet nga anak nga naragsak iti magulang na iti kinapintas na iti pinagbasa na.nangangatu nga grades nga ipakpakita na.isuna ket mapagmahal la unay iti kakabsaT NA.nu adday kailangan da ket matulungan na basta kaya na. isuna ket naragsak nga kadkadua iti kakasinsin na ken gagayyem na. isuna ket iti kabsat ko nga bunso.ni JAYSON.

iddi 0ct 22 nasakit iti nakem ko nu haan ko man lang maikkan isuna iti uray bassit mman lang nga salo salo idiay balay. isu nga iti inubrak nagluto nak itibassit nga handa na.ken haan nga maawan iti cake nga kaykayat na.tiramisu.naragsak nga rabii.nabnabsog iti bassit nga nilutok ken nabarbatek la unay iti kinaadu ti arak.hahaha

salamat rhea.salamat mon.ken salamat manang.ken agitti umay nga nagpasaya iti birthday ni adding ko jayson.


happy birthday manen ADING JAYSON!


love lots,
ate sarah

Sunday, October 8

umuna



inyan.agsasaruno iti agbirthday .hehe nagadun iti agitreat kanya kon.aysus.tataba nga lalo nu kastoy laeng.hahaha ssssh! seryoson.

tatta october tallo kadagidiay importante nga tao iti agbirthday.tallo nga kakaduak ditoy balay sta mesa.tallo nga lalaki.tallo nga nakakulkulit.tallo nga nagpigsa nga mangan.tallo nga puro porma ub-ubraen da.tallo nga adda amin gf na. tallo nga nagsasadut ta siak iti tagaluto da nu awan ni manang.tallo nga sweet da unay kanyak nga manang da. tallo nga napuspos unay iti pagadal da.tallo nga nalaing agay ayam iti basketball.at syempre, NAGAGWAPO DA.apu la unayen aya.haha

Dsc00008 ni ading ko nga eric.isu na iti maysa. umuna nga agbirthday kadakanyada nga tallo.attoy nga kasinsin ko iti kasingpetan kanya da nga tallo. nalpasen iti birthday na.idi oct. 4 pay.ngem idi rabii mi nga icinelebrate ta inuydak nga nagawid ditoy balay mi sta mesa.idiay dampa kame nga napan it paranaque..idiay ket nagdinner kame.kadua mi iti gf na nga ni loan, tas da jayson,rean,paul,ali,mon,pola,monty ken ric.dampa.seafoods!aysus.calamares.sinigang sa miso.buttered tuna belly.baked tahong. buttered chili prawns.watermeloN! ta nabnabsug kame amin.12:30 am san idi malpas kame nga manganen.papanan mi pay? eastwood kano?hala!madinak nga mabalin nen mapan ngamin ta nasapa iti reviewk.natuloy da erik ngem sika da mon ric monty ken pola nagawidden.nagragsak nga rabii.nagragsak nga birthday ni ading ko eric..Dsc00236

ading.ipagpatuloy mo iti napintas nga pinangrugim iti pagsirek mo iti colegio.iti kinasingpet mo.attoy lang iti wish ko kingka, sapay kuma ta iyadayu ka ni apu dios iti sakit ken disgrasya.

tandaam datoy.haan ka nga malas.swerte ka,ok?ni mangng mo sarah adda lage ditoy nu kailangam wen?

Happy birthday ading ERIC!

love you.muah!

++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

urayen yo ni sinu iti maykadua nga agbday..hehe

Tuesday, September 19

since 1987



it's almost here. it's almost here. my best friend, karen...her birthday is almost here. wohoo. seems like yesterday...
i met karen when we started nursery school. we were classmates. i remember
our classroom back then to be very small but it had a lot of toys. lol. our teacher was ma'am natividad. back then, we went to school in pattao. in nursery school, we were both 2nd honor until we graduated kindergarten. we were both salutatorian. isn't that cute? we were tied. ha ha ha. in grade one, our teacher was mrs. peralta. there, she was 1st honor and i was only 3rd. it just proves that she's smarter than me. hahaha. karen, do you remember our playground at school? it was very dusty, but so much fun. what about all the big acacia trees at the school and the pansit and spaghetti in platic bags they sold at the canteen? it was so much fun even though life was just like that.

1990. she had to leave to go to the US because her parents were there. i understood because her family had to come first, but i do not think she wanted to leave the Philippines. she grew up with her aunt and uncle in pattao, who became her second parents. she didn't want to leave them and leave her friends. she was very sad when she left. she actually pleaded with her parents in the US if she could stay in the Philippines until she graduated from 6th grade, but they did not allow it. she was very sad and afraid to move to the states. she did not know anyone over there. however, she had to go and she had to get used to her new environment. new family faces, new language, new environment, new climate, new everything. when she left, i was very sad. but she did everything so that the ones she left in the PI were not unhappy. i remember since grade 2, we were already writing each other letters. when i was still in buguey, i would always go to our post office because she always had a letter for me. she was very sweet. karen, did you know that the first dollar i held and was mine was the ones you send me that very first christmas you were there. i was very happy when i received it. lol. when i moved for high school, the writing continued and we had a lot of conversations through letters.1999. she came to visit us in the PI. it was very nice seeing her. we were both growing up. she even came to stay overnight at our place in manila. it was so much fun. i miss it!karen is my true friend. she never forgot to send me xmas cards and bday cards everytime i celebrated my birthday. haha. she would call when she learned my mobile number. now, we chat online when we find the chance. she's inlove now, actually for a long time now. i just don't know when she's going to tie the knot. when are you getting married? my best friend and i are both crazy! hahaha. her birthday is on september 25th which will be her 24th birthday. wohoo!bessy, on your birthday, my only wish from lord is GOOD health for this friend of mine.

when will you be coming home here? 7 years already!come home already karen!i miss you so much.or should i just go there to see you just like you said?it's possible! :-)
best friends since 1987!
happy birthday BESSY!

Wednesday, September 13

heya bro!



sept 13. whose birthday was it?
i remember. there was one kid then. i grew up him. we were playmates. he was very nice to his parents. he had a lot of friends but i remember his best friend was carlo. very smart. he was the teachers' favorite in pattao. he was my partner in dance contests at schools. when he was young, he was already cute. really. it's true. we went to school together in high school at st paul. at a young age, he was already helping his dad at work. he likes to fix broken electric fans, cd players, etc. he would go with his dad on his project ventures with bridges. he would watch how these were built. he would receive academic awards. he is proficient in math. blue card awardee. etc. when he graduated from high school, i was secretly crying in my room. my mom was the same. because he had chicken pox and he had very high fever that he wasn't able to march across the stage to accept his diploma. it's so sad because it was a big accomplishment in his life. when he got to college, we even shared the same house in manila. he was so good. he wouldn't go out when his friends would invite him. i remember he would sermon us because we would always go out and we wouldn't come home till really late.

who is this i'm talking about?
it's the brother i love so much.
Vito Jr.
Dong is what we call him. to us siblings, he would be called daddy dong because of his sermons. he is a very kind uncle "kuyang dong" to my baby frances. one really smart engineer. how many projects do you have now, bro? hehehe...bro, you're 23 now. he he he he.

you're old now too. but that's okay. i know that your love for us never changes. you always put us before yourself. thank you my dear brother. even though i couldn't come home on this special day of yours, i am always praying to jesus that you are always happy on your birthday.

my wish for your birthday is that i hope you are always happy with everything you do. hope lord will never leave you alone. hope lord will keep you away from sickness and accidents. i wish you all the wonderful things in life. don't forget to thank god for everything.

happy birthday!

ate loves you so MUCH bro! muah!

Friday, September 8

fifth birthday



time is fast...only 22 more days until my baby girl's 5th birthday. it doesn't seem so long agowhen i was in the labor room screaming of pain.and when i woke up i had stitches on my stomach (CS). they admitted me to the labor room at midnight and for trying to have a normal delivery, by 4pm i
had to get CS.at delgado hospital in kamuning.

Baptism and the God parents.

Her first birthday was at bf homes caloocan.It was a lot of fun.2nd-4th birthday in tuguegarao. i wasn't able to attend 3 of her birthdays because i had final exams.my mom didn't let me go home.NOW, it's her 5TH BIRTHDAY! so fast! but now that her mom has graduated, she is sure that she will take care of her baby Frances Vita's 5th birthday! yipeee!

to my dearest frances vita,
on your 5th birthday anak,i want you to know that on every birthday mommy really wants to come home to be with you.to be with you to celebrate this happy and important day.sept 30.i want to hug you and say thanks to God for bringing an angel into my life. i kiss you and hug you like i never want to be away from you again.i want to tell you that I love you like i always tell you.because if you only knew how much i love you baby,you are my life.You are the one who gives me strenght in everything i do.


You are the reason why mommy is living.


my wish for your 5th birthday is wahat i always tell you. iwant you to grow up to be akind child to your playmates, to papa and mama and to all the people that love you.

and i would like to thank my mom and dad for always supporting me and my baby.if it weren't for them,we wouldn't have what we have today.

to all my siblings and cousins who are there always when i need somethingand who love my baby morethan just a niece.

to mon, for loving us so much. and for accepting us without a lot of questions.one very kind and nice husbond and loving dad to ces.

and to God, thank you for the GIFT.

thank you to eveyone!

a lot of drama,eh!

muah!

Thursday, September 7

you are the one



nya.yep, katatapos ko lang nagwatch ng movie.wehehehe kinilig nanaman ang lola mo.kase..kasi..kasi si Sam! lol ewan ko..basta nakakatuwa yung movie.basta nakakakilig.basta masaya.nakakatawa.sorry po,tao lang.lol katulad ng close to you nyang movie,patok ulit ito!hahahaha

Wednesday, September 6

photographer's night



miss it so much.
how did i get the chance to be with these very beautiful and very handsome photographers? they are beautiful inside and out. okay, kuya orly, my mom's niece's husband brought me along to the opening of their school workshop at west ave because he found out i have a passion for photography. not really right? kidding aside, when we arrived at west ave kuya orly introduced me to all the photographers. i think i was the only one who was not a photographer! i'm glad they are all kind. they talked and talked to me. drinks all around. wine for everyone. bottoms up! lots of talking and lots of laughing. but one thing i remember is that i got super drunk! as in! sure i had 3-5 bottles of wine! i don't know about Ms. Leah! ha ha ha. kuya orly told me that ms. agnes (one of the photographer's dentist) took me home. ha ha ha. so embarrasing. but all i can say is that i had such a great time with the photographers. they are true friends. i miss them so much..

Tuesday, August 29

night swimming



woah! when was the last time we went swimming? was it on my birthday? mmmh..yes! that's been such a long time. where was it? laguna? that's right! it was storming then. lol.

newei, last sat night we went swimming again in laguna. it was my ate's friend, Roberto's birthday. he is my friend, angelica's husband. they were our friends in buguey. btw, it was 9pm when we got to laguna. we ate right away. wow! grilled tilapia and catfish, pork barbeque, pansit, papaitan. sarap! plus dessert, of course you can't go without the birthday cake for the birthday boy. lol we were so full. drinking time! emperador for us. toast for me. emperador drink right away and then coke for the chaser. everyone drank. then swimming time. i said that i wasn't going to swim at the moment.i was at the edge of the pool and my brother pushed me into 6ft of water. hello?!! i'm only 5'1'' and i do not know how to swim! ha ha ha. it was a while until i got hold of the edge of the pool. argh! did i drown? not really.

it was a fun birthday for kuya bittong. drinking. singing.

Monday, August 28

sad naman



It's a nice feeling being inlove but when you get heartbroken, you tend to go to different places..

see different people..

hangout with your friends till dawn..

drink till you drop..

smoke and fly..

get wasted..

watch he most dragging scene..

laugh at the corniest joke..

smile to everyone..

when you know dip inside that all you wanna do is..

CRY....................

Thursday, August 24

zirkoh with ate cielo




bat kasama si Ms. K?

sunday night @ zirkoh timog.holiday kinabukasan.treat daw sitito june .cge, tara! asan si mon,bat ndi nakasama? naiintindihan ko. may usapan sila ng kuya nya magkitakita sila nila tentay sa las pinas.biglaan lang kase yaya ni tito.naisip ko si ate cielo wala ginagawa.tinext ko.gusto nya sumama.ayon.gabing puno ng tawanan.sigawang pakikipag usap sa ingay. muraang bading! puta.ulol.gaga.gago.lahat2.inuman. 3am na.uwi na mga kapatid at pinsan ko. nagpaiwan pa kame ni ate cielo. antay si mon at kuya franklin para sunduin kame. nakita namen Ms. K sa labas.sya guest. papic kame ni ate cielo.konti nalang tao sa loob. natapos ang show. umwi na muna kame sa bahay nila ate cielo sa times.doon na nag antay. kwentuhan.tawana. antok na kame.4 am dumating ang magkapatid. kwentuhan ulit.tawanan.6 am na kame nakauwi ni mon.tulog agad!masayang sunday night.sana maulit ulit.

sobra na ito



paggising.kailangan kumain.ulam sa lamesa, pritong tilapia at sunny side up na itlog.anong oras na ba? 12:30 na ng hapon?! hala! pano na yung appointment ko sa eskwela ng alas nuebe ng umaga? hayaan ko na. matawagan nga si jeff. may pasyente daw sya.tutuloy pa kaya ako ng eskwela? ako ay nahihiya.aking naalala.parang tumawag ang aking mahal kaninang als nuebe ng umaga. punung puno ng masasarap na salita galing sa kanya samantalang wala ako masabe sa sobrang antok parin.bye na then muna honey, ilove you.ang huling sinabi nya.ndi ko namalayan andami ko ng nakain.hahaha kaya ganito ang katawan ko.ndi na pumayat.argh.pero yaan ko na.ganito talaga ang buhay. naisip ko magfriendster. may friend requests at isang testi galing kay tigs. nakatext ko si ardee. nasa rob galleria. shopping dee? pareho kaming walang magawa.aya pakulay ng buhok.kaya lang sirang sira na buhok ko.pano kaya? sandali lang.may kasama ba ako dito sa bahay? WALA! hala! kailangan ko ng lumabas.katakot takot dito sa bldg namein ngayon.may nagpakamatay.tumalon mula sa 4th floor.bagsak nya sa harap ng door namen.sinong ndi matatakot!sige.ligo na ako.labas na ako.buhay.buhay!

Wednesday, August 23

fits



a person who truly loves you
is someone whoe sees the pain in your eyes
while everyone else still believes in the smile on your face..

Tuesday, August 22

three's



3 things in life when gone,never come back:

Time
words
Opportunity

3 things in life that should never be lost:

Peace
Hope
Honesty

3 thing3 in life that can destroy a person:

LUST
PRIDE
ANGER

3 things that are truly constant:

Change
Death
God

Monday, August 21

fair enough



7 ways to fight FAIR..

1.Don't hold back communication. You should
always feel free to express an upset or talk about
something you feel is wrong. Remember, it isn't
WHAT you say it's HOW you say it!

2.Make sure you have enough time to actually
hash out your differences. If you try to stop your
partner on his way to work, or you call her on your
lunch break, chances are you're going to be left
feeling dissatisfied and unacknowledged due to a
lack of time. If necessary, agree upon a future time
to discuss the matter at hand. Being considerate
of your partner's time contributes to the amount of
courtesy your partner will show when faced with
your discussion.

3.Don't assume anything! It is not possible to know
exactly what is going on, unless you actually hear
it from your partner's perspective. Don't try to
figure
out what they're thinking, just ask. It can save you
a lot of grief and avoid HUGE misconceptions by
taking the time to just talk it over.

4.Don't bring the past into a current discussion. If
you actually want a problem resolved you have to
make your partner feel like they can actually
resolve it. When you bring up the past you are
communicating to them, that no matter what
changes or efforts they given to improve the
condition, you will still hold them accountable for
past actions. Where's the motivation for
improvement there?

5.If something is your fault, say you're sorry! Don't
hold out and try to redirect the blame to something
or someone else. If you broke a promise, said
something you wished you didn't or did something
you'd rather not confess to, it's up to you to make
amends. Not only will YOU feel better about your
ability to come clean, but your partner will learn to
trust you more knowing you're willing to accept
responsibility.

6.Take a timeout before things get too heated. If
you feel your anger level rising, take a 15 minute
timeout to gain a new perspective. Take a walk,
listen to some music or do some housecleaning to
help dissipate your ire.

7.Don't fight in front of friends or family. You
automatically put the other person on guard when
you enter into a major disagreement in front of
others. In addition, instead of the disagreement
staying a personal matter, which it should be, it
now becomes open to other input. Trust me; you
do not want anyone else adding in their two cents,
even if it's in support of your feelings. Think
about it
from your partner's shoes. Would you actually give
an open and honest discussion if you felt you were
up against an army? Agree that you will both talk
about what happened away from prying eyes and
ears.

"The next time you want to see eye to eye, try
using your ears."

Sunday, August 20

now,go!!!



always learn to right ur HURTS in the sand

where winds of forgiveness can blow them away..

and to carve your blessings in the stone

where no wind can ever erase them..

Thursday, August 17

Resto ONE



RESTO CAVITY OF LIFE!

GOD is

our

RETENTION

FORM,

no

matter

how

strong the

OCCLUSAL FORCE of

MASTICATION

in LIFE,

we shall

not be

DISLODGED

because

we are

ETCHED

to HIM...=)

Wednesday, August 16

count your fingers



5 fingers of prayers:

1. your THUMB is nearest to you so pray for those who are CLOSEST to you..

2. POINTING FINGER, pray for those who teach, instruct and heal..

3. TALLEST FINGER, pray for our leaders they need GOD's guidance..

4. RING FINGER, weakest finger so pray for those who are weak, in trouble or in pain..

5. LITTLE FINGER, the smallest to remind you to pray for yourself..

Monday, July 31

so true



The important thing is not to be BITTER ove life's difficulties.

Learn to let go of the past and recognize that everyday wont be sunny,

and when you find yourself lost in darkness and despair,

remember-

it is only in the black of that night that you can see the stars, and those stars will lead you back home.

So, dont be afraid to make mistakes, to stumble, to fall

Because most of the time, the greatest rewards come from doing things that scare you the most..

Tuesday, July 11

11 painful things



- Bringing back the feeling you've learned to forget..

- Reminiscin' the good times..

- Trying to hide what you really feel..

- Lovin' someone who loves another..

- Having a commitment with someone that you know wouldn'tlast..

- Shielding your heart to love somebody..

- Loving a person too much..

- Right love at the wrong time..

- Taking risk you fall inlove again..

- Accepting that it was never meant to be..

- WHAT IF's.

Sunday, May 14

my 24th bday bash!!



bumabagyo po!! swear! brown out pa! salamat sa generator ni manang..palipat lipat kami ng resort..11pm na kami nakahanap ng okay naman..sooooobrang saya!! wohoooo!

Monday, May 1

my darling angel



I miss her.
I miss her scent.
I miss her smile.
I miss her sweetness.
I miss my baby girl!
and this is what I miss about my baby girl anywhere I go..

tugue-baby...
I miss it when she would wake me up every morning. She tickles me to say, Mommy wake upumaga na omay araw na. I miss the hours we spend watching her favorite dvds. I miss the times when she would call me to make her some milk and if I feel lazy, she tells me to tell her babysitter to do it. Ha ha. I miss it when shes drinking her milk and asks me to tell her a story. I miss us taking a bath together and she asks a lot of questions. I miss us soaking in the water when we take a bath in the morning and at night. I miss the times when she asks me to mix her some milk, but because its too early, she goes and does it herself. I miss the times we play in the mountains in the back of the house. I miss the times we go papaya-picking from her mamas garden. I miss her playfulness and her tickling me when we are in our room. I miss playing house with her. I miss the times she would put makeup on her Barbie dolls. I also miss the times when I would tell her mama would get mad, she would say, I want mama to get mad! I miss her craziness. I miss the times when my siblings would pretend to punch me and my baby girl would defend me. I miss the times when I would get mad at her because she wouldnt finish the milk she asked me to make for her and in her sweet little voice, she asks, mommy, love mo ba ako? I love you. I miss the times when we both laugh at the same time. I miss eating together. I miss picking our neighbors duhat and the dog would chase after us.
I miss everything about my baby.

farm-baby..
I miss it when my baby girl and I are at the
sampaguita farm.
I miss seeing her running aroundand having me chase after her even though its
very hot. I miss it when she picks flowers and pretends to be a flower girl. I miss it when
were playing badminton, she wants to play. I miss the ways she entices me to go look at the
pigs, ducks, turkey, chicken and goats her papa takes care of. Even if they smell, I miss it when she says, mommy, theyre my best friends. Isnt it cute? I miss it when we go to the small hut and we talk about anything. I miss it when she insists I go swimming in the farm? Swimming in the farm? Yes, she has a little pool. I miss it when shes wearing the swimsuit Mon bought her. I miss it when we are at the farm and eating all sorts of grilled food. I miss it when were on our way home and shes so tired, shes always hugging me in the car. Then, she is asked to sing so that she can get some stars. Then, by the time we get to the house in Tuguegarao, shes already fallen asleep.
I miss my baby!

buguey-baby...
I miss the time when my baby and I went to Buguey. I miss seeing her very happy in the company of many other children. I miss it when were told that we look so much alike. I miss it when she is called little LALA over there. I miss it when we would go to the beach to swim and she would not want to come out of the water. I miss how she explains to me how to swim. I miss having to chase after her to feed her because in Buguey, she never has time to eat because she has a lot of playmates. I miss it when we would play basketball at my grandma's house and my baby cant steal the balland when she cant take the ball away, she cries. I miss it when she would get sleepy, she would convince me to take her home, but theres no one at home yet and I get scared going home when no one is around. So, when we get home, she would convince me to go back to grandmas. Shes funny.

I miss my baby very very much!!!

Monday, April 24

huag damdamin



Huag Damdamin
by: bessy mathie
august 29 1998


Life nga naman;
Paminsan-minsan
'di 'ko maunderstand,
'di 'ko masasagutan
Ngunit there are times
as if gusto ko bumitaw
At sometimes gusto ko mamatay.
Ganyan tagala yan kaibigan,
Natutuwa ka, syempre there is kalungkutan
ngunit huag mong hahayaan
ika'y maapektuhan ng tuluyan
Kung 'di mahuhurt ka lang,
Problema'y madaragdagan,
Baka ikaw pa'y masiraan.
Take this advise galing sa akin;
"HUAGMONG DAMDAMIN"
Yaan ay lilipas rin
Buhay ay huag sayangin
And think "HOPE" din
"Huag mong damdamin"
Huag masyadong isipin.
Bestfriend, lahat ng yan,
Madadaanan at malalampasan
And dont forget naman
na ako'y narito lamang
I'll listen to you, alam mo yan
I'll be a shoulder, all the time
A shoulder na puwedeng iyakan!
Those thing ar only spice,
To make you nice
Hindi lang nice, strong and smart
Kaya never mind, SMILE
Bast huag kang susuko at bibigay
Kung 'di ika'y mahihirapan
Dahil puro ka nalang panghihinayang
Di ba nga, iyo nabang nakalimutan
When the sun set,
The next thing ay, the sun will rise
Kaya let it come,
Soon it will go
Basat magdasal ka lang
mawawala lahat ng yan!

Wednesday, March 29

read



Our lives have so many backward glances in them,thinking back to how many things were and how many things might have been.. THere's nothing wrong with thinking back, but its probably a mistaketo dwell on thr PAST's "WHAT IF's"..instead, we should concentrate on today, tomorrow, and on tomorrow's yet to be..There are a lot of beautiful days are to come..The past is past, but tomorrow will last forever..Let's each tomorrow fill your heart with laughter, yopur days with dreams come true and your life with so much happiness to look forward to..

wink*

Sunday, March 26

is it true?



"Love is a great feeling but can hurt as much as hell."

Saturday, March 25

love and like



The difference between love and like...

In front of the person you like, your heart beats faster
But in front of the person you love, you get happy.

In front of the person you love, winter seems like spring.
But in front of the person you like, winter is just beautiful winter.

If you look into the eyes of the one you like, you blush.
But if you look into the eyes of the one you love, you smile.

In front of the person you like, you can't say everything on your mind.
But in front of the person you love, you can.

In front of the person you like, you tend to get shy.
But in front of the person you love, you can show your own self.

You can't look straight into the eyes of the one you like.
But you can always smile into the eyes of the one you love.

But when the one you like is crying, you end up comforting.
When the one you love is crying, you cry with them.

The feeling of like starts from the ear.
But the feeling of love starts from the eye.

So if you stop liking a person you used to like, all
you need to do is cover your ears.
But if you try to close your eyes, love turns into a
drop of tear and remains in your heart forever ...

"There are no shortcuts to any place worth going."

Monday, March 20

dent kadas



Paula Camille
-my bessy.pola.kikay.crush ni tigs at ken.sobra pag nagmahal. totoong tao. kung ayaw ayaw talaga! pretty and sexy!! kahit saan magkasama kame.(prostho1)lol ndi nya alam kung bat may galit dad nya sa kanya. sa banana wraps kame lumalamon lage dati. miss you bessy!

Raquel
-my khellogs. neggy's bax , jeff's best and nastel's LUVS. dating kikay queen! galante. may mansion.resthaus. daming alagang aso. astig sa taekwando at chess ( champion sya para sa akin).smart.mommy.pretty at sexyng preggy.understanding and forgiving. miss you ..

Marquina
-my neggy. kada's quin.khelle's bax! asus. patay ka pag ikaw special someone nya napakathoughtful. friendly. tagapagtanggol namen sa barkada. iniwan kame dito sa pinas last month pero NAKABALIK na!wohoo!ang saya saya! kakamiss mga panggugulo nya sa mga buhay buhay namen. lol. love her tatoos. miss you negs...

Athena
-my tigidigs. tigs.Kaloy's honey."lalaki po ako". maalalahanin. mahal nya mga kaibigan nya sobra. Sobrang bait. clumsy. CD patient daw sabi ni bon.lol lakas tumawa. cry baby. miss na miss at gusto na nya makasama hubby nya si CARLO. maaasahan sa lahat ng bagay. pero ndi padin natutuloy pagstarbucks namen dalawa sa Las pinas...kailan kaya?hehe miss you..

Jeffrey
-my babs. khelle's best.jepoy! anu pa ba ang ndi ko alam sa buhay ng babs ko na to?hehe sobrang happy na sya ngaun.dati kase parang ikakamatay nya ang problema nya sa lovelife nya.eto tawa nya.hikhikhik.lol napakabait.pag may prob ako tatakas kame sa bahay.gala-buddy.hehe jogging kame nila khen sa baywalk ng 4 am walang tulugan.(puyatan!)lol seloso.sweet!sobrang sarap kasama. miss you babs..

Ma. Cristina
- gorgeous crix. Bon's baby. sya ang pinakamasipag sa amin magclic dati. kaya nga sya nauna nakatapos sa clinic. ndi nagsasawang sabihan kaming magclinic. tinutulungan nya ako sa pagrereview ko ngaun. napakagaing mag edit ng video. Ms. President. magulo. 1st impression mataray.ndi po! napakabait at masaya kasama.. galing sumayaw.gumiling.lol miss you crix!

Majesty
-my lovely maj.bebe. small but terrible. tahimik na makulit. funny. dating may madramang lovelife ngaun masayang masaya na sa hubby nya. astig na dentista. masta. makulit sa makulit.love ko to. miss you maj..

Annalyn
-my tahimik annalyn pa din. simple. mahilig magpakwento. sobra pag nainlove.smart.pretty.tall and sexY! miss ko na ung pagpasok nya sa sch na nakacollege shirt tas magpapalit kase susunduin sya ng special someone nya.;) suki ko sa mga cookies ko .hehe mukhang tahimik pero madaldal din.masarap kausap. miss you annalyn!

Anthony
-my babes. bon.bonsilog. Crix's hubby. nakakamiss ang condo nya. tambayan ng barkada dati. and daming ulam. free breakfast and dinner ako lage dun dati at may pasalubong pang cassava cake. hwehehe. la friendster account to. anu naman paki nya! lol super galante. lahat ng rooms sa dentsci puro vandal ng name nya "BONSILOG!" ...tapos na daw ang karma! lol miss you bon..

Ken
-mkuya ken ng mga kababaihan!lol sarcastic.mabait.at ang buhok! lately sya ang lagi ko kasama. dami din kadramahan sa buhay. pag galit walang kapatawaran.katakot,dba?lol jke. pag may problema anjan sya parati.pero nung naiwan ako sa mla iniwan din nya ako at nagbacolod!argh!hahaha bodyguard.lol miss you ken. peace!

Tuesday, February 28

from mommy dear



TODAY I take time to thank

the people who touched my

life. Thoughtful daughter

who have shown concern and

made my life more

meaningful, THANK YOU

anak.

Thursday, February 16

from ading vangie



Two things you love about me:

-How sweet and caring you are.
-How you love Kuya MOn.

Two things you hate about me:

-N/A. =)
-N/A. =)

Two messages you like to tell me:

-I'll always be here for you ate Sarah.
-I thank you for coming into our lives..

Two words to describe me:

-sweet
-lovely

One nickname you like to call me:

-Mon's wife. =)

Monday, February 13

DMD 4D



Thank you
so much
BRGY 599
zone 59
(our adopted brgy)!!!